The unhealed couple –

They clearly didn’t read




By Robert A Johnson

And curtail all unhealed projections.

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  1. The comments in the above Facebook Post were –
    Henry Kuyvenhoven commented :
    She is right. But she doesn’t see he is left. Well that leaves us not in the middle but simply out.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    No she’s just got an unhealed mother wound.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven commented :
    Alright. I was thinking she was the mother of mothers but let’s do it your way.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    No, she is a woman. But they entered into a romantic relationship. And it was all fun and games but then they haven’t prioritized healing the ego shadow. Hence, the projected upset.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    The journey is from insecurity to security. You can’t be secure if you see lack in yourself or another. Security is the sparkling negation of that nonsense.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    It relates to an active verb and noun. The atomic and the quantum and the evolutionary – all in one.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    To explain the evolutionary aspect the Indians came up with vasanas and samskaras.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry oh oh I don’t think I want to remember that.
    Nathan Curry replied :
    Henry Kuyvenhoven vasana just means impression
    A child puts her finger in a candle flame
    That’s the impression.
    Then a habit forms from that impression – that’s the samskara.
    They change as we change.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    But a samskara is actually more than just a habit. It’s the code that codes for the genetics and the memes. It’s not at the level of form. But function.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    And the key thing in that teaching is the word
    In Sanskrit
    It means
    Root habit
    The question the wise yogis asked was:
    Those deeply ingrained habits – some are wise and some are not (as they are fashioned from fearful perceptions of impressions) – how to clean out the unhealthy ones? – and intelligence clarifies the unhealed root habits and heals them.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    The deepest beauty of it is that that yoga is actually the natural state – when the mind is lax.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    And when it is in that lax state which is a permanent state once entered all the faculties awaken and evolve quite naturally.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    And that one primal instinct that makes man man – the drive and desire to clarify the nature of nature is fully charged. Like the kind of Nikola Tesla battery we have yet to actually see. Though it is seeded.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry got it
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry whoops I was thinking that I could reply independently to each of your posts. I have not learned that.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry yes habit is not simple. It is passed on in genes, DNA&RNA. ANCESTRY. This is the recycling process but a simple aspect.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    These dimensions do have a psychological component. Very much so.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    I mean the quantum and the atomic start in a star. With hydrogen. But the evolutionary aspect, the third aspect, it is there throughout too.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    And actually, Henry Kuyvenhoven – as I know you study acim – that aspect – the evolutionary- the accelerated – is exactly what the course in miracles misunderstood.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry I am not here to judge or change anything or anyone other than they are willing. ACIM is studied until the studying is done. When learning is done revelation takes over. The thinking that humans usually consider to be normal is not thinking at all. How ever it’s extremely insulting to say it that way so I just twist the truth and call real thinking Revelation or inspiration. You, Nathan Curry know what I mean. You have your part to play in this stage of actors and I have mine. I recognize you and support you as I not only can, but must because I know who I am too.
    It is done when it is done. It’s healed when it doesn’t recycle. This world is definitely dependent upon the recycling systems and if that is ignored the humanity as we witness it today is going to be recycled within perhaps less than 1000 years. I am not educated as Henry Kuyvenhoven. This was the plan. Awakening does not require that education as Einstein or Tesla. Those were their paths. You have yours. I recognize you and am honoured to know and remember you. Often the pieces of the puzzle are shown. When they are not I just purify my mind to get ready for revelation. Revelation is not being withheld. The willingness is required. Every thing and everyone is willing. Will is the given factor. The key question we can support anyone and anything with is: “what do you want”, or in other words “what is the purpose”, “what is it for”
    Clarity without purpose is impossible. Likewise chaos with purpose is impossible. We can discuss and debate about that for decades (again) that is 3d. I expect we are at least looking past the fifth dimension or so. Again I am not educated about such things as dimensions. I get revelation and they seem insane to Henry at times. When he settles down he sees and enjoys the revealed.
    The Mind appears split until it is revealed that it is not. The steps of revelation seem like steps until the end. Only when the journey has ended is it completely apparent that the journey never began. Until then there are glimpses.
    It’s insane to judge anyone else as to how or what they have glimpsed. Saying what has been glimpsed is usually valueless, however it might be helpful at a precise moment in time.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    No, that is not true. That mythic motif is not a path to awakening. It’s a diversion. It’s getting lost in forgiveness rather than calibrating oneself to right action. So you have a theater full of adherents to the idea that redemption lies beyond this world. But when you are fully attentive: that’s nonsense.
    Homo sapiens
    The wise hominid
    Wisdom is contingent on knowledge and on security.
    Science means knowledge
    Science includes the harmonious reflections of the arts.
    Mathematics means to learn.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry in the truest sense of the word and words. Truth is either singular or it is not. The between is just part of the idea that truth is multiple. Here’s how easy I present it to anyone I communicate with.
    You have two options, apparently.
    2. No
    End of discussion.
    However I enjoy company and laughing and looking together at what is true so I change the words
    1. True
    2. False
    1. Inhale
    2 exhale
    2. Lax
    1. sleep
    2. Awake
    It depends on the light of the day.
    1. Light
    2. Darkness
    Hearing or deafness
    Yes I am able to still see opposites. A totally awakened Mind can not see opposite. Whoops! Who opposes….whoopposited
    I have remembered some strange things. I can not prove my remembering, yet. When I am able I have the option of yes and no, still. There my dear friend is where my life is. Pivotal on inclusion and focused on letting exclusion take care of itself. Exclusion needs no adjustments. It is the Nature. She knows her borders, her inclusion and her exclusion. I am still learning to be the gardener, but I am the Garden. I am in need of support and am trying to not waste energy on unnecessary tension. Every breath can become a yoga. Every step. But only joy and happiness are going to allow that intensity of living. So I am learning to include and let exclusion be extremely simple.
    Truth is singular.
    Exclude just once and everything is easy.
    Okay now what?
    Revelation as to what is better and leads to the single truth.
    Nathan am I making sense to you or just pissing in the wind.
    Insecurity is finally ended in the singularity of truth. Amen
    My sermon from my tiny bed, from my tiny cottage, from my tiny property, from my tiny planet, from my tiny Solar system, from my tiny galaxy that is apparently travelling at an incredible speed and I as a body have no awareness of that or the direction, well my sermons are over. I still have a choice apparently. Well my garden is calling.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    “I am vast, I contain multitudes.”
    Walt Whitman
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry he was a homosexual
    Henry Kuyvenhoven commented :
    I am beyond that.
    Nathan Curry replied :
    Henry Kuyvenhoven he was a man. I guess that was his inner sexual inclination. That’s his right. I think he was a great poet. Who cares what he did with those he mutually loved. We limit humans by our judgments. He brought much beauty and poetry to the world. Seems all that’s pertinent to me.
    My mentor considered him one of the four founders of the philosophical ground of America. He, Lincoln, Emerson and Thoreau. He was right.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven commented :
    I had a very strange teacher who taught me about that. I finally was willing to be beyond that. But I don’t exclude them. I understand that it is useless tension. The real value of sex is procreation.
    Truth is singular.
    Nathan Curry replied :
    Henry Kuyvenhoven oh well that’s a big conversation.
    It takes one to the Taoist and the tantric sects.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry okay you are allowed to believe what you want. I am included. But I believe my judgement and so do you. Truth is singular is my final judgement.
    Now what?
    Nathan Curry commented :
    Well, I find that dogmatic.
    And insecure.
    Sex has different roles.
    But yes for those who chose a straight life style like you and I – that’s a path for sure.
    Nathan Curry replied :
    Henry Kuyvenhoven I’m never interested in judgment. Ever. I’m constantly judicious.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    Bonobos have homosexual sex. No one judges them in their tribe. They fight and do all kinds of things monkeys do.
    Marriage is an elevated path for those aware of its deeper focus.
    But that’s the evolution of culture in hominids.
    I have noticed in a lot of stories around homosexuality in humans – unhealed mother and father wounds. But that is common in straight people too.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry 😊😊😄😂🤣🤣my life has been so crooked it makes my head spin. I am like the corkscrew hazel Bush. Ordered chaos. When you understand that bush the universe is a playground.
    Nathan Curry replied :
    Henry Kuyvenhoven that is true. One that comes with resonance and sponsors of clarity.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    The difference between judicious – meaning to do the right thing and to judge – which involves condemnation- is world’s apart.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven commented :
    About sex. We, as humanity have allowed the evolution to reach as far as America. They murdered my Ancestors. I have reincarnation and now decided to change the words. Reincarnation is an old idea. The new idea is recycling.
    Nathan Curry replied :
    Henry Kuyvenhoven no the new idea is newables. And presence and ending of the momentum of ill will.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry I truly give my words the meaning I want. You may try to correct me. However I see no errors in evolution
    It is what it is. Thege what is better. Currently American is not bono boing. Sorry I need to laugh. I have been through all the different requirements to judge the tribes and sexual constructions. I know. Even in the early part of this century a group of “legally acceptable people” tried to change the Dutch laws and make it permissible to have sex with non adults. This people were stopped. Confusion was not tolerated.
    I judge the distance of the car in front of me while using my body to drive a automobile. I judge how much physical power I need to exert in each split second to plant the small vegetable seedlings. I judge which word to use to express what I hope is accepted. I judge that there is actually only acceptance if I am telling the truth. Rejection for me means that my presentation was not good enough or the timing was too soon. I judge that the first I can change and the second is not my affair.
    So I use the word judgement perhaps a little different. A universal system of ideas for humanity is also an idea that I believe is inevitable. I believe humanity is in the evolution of exactly that. Proclaiming that publicly requires great power like Lincoln or Einstein. Perhaps that is your place Nathan Curry. We have had the crusaders from both sides. The east is meeting the west but most people still say the Sun comes up in the east. We know the truth. The sun never sets in the west. And I am not joking about the bright lights of the cities in America. The earth spins and bodies are aware but the mind is a sleep.
    Nathan Curry replied :
    Henry Kuyvenhoven recycle implies no understanding of the cycles of duction.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry perhaps that is going to be the term. I am planning to write a long post about recycling as soon as I get my personal business in better order. Typing from a smartphone uses to much time for me.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry will nilly. Free will and I’ll will. I only see it as confused. Clarity brings order. And I have to get to my business.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry okay you got my attention. What is (cycle of duction)?
    Nathan Curry replied :
    Henry Kuyvenhoven I’ll explain soon.
    Henry Kuyvenhoven replied :
    Nathan Curry okay
    Nathan Curry commented :

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    Nathan Curry commented :
    I mean in that sense the central motif of the Course is a character who has to leave this world to get to a better one. That’s psychological inflation. No different than Elon Musk going to Mars to mine cadmium because we didn’t manage resources wisely.
    But just here inflected in unhealed and insecure projections which make actuality into a condemned duality. Muppets! 😉
    Nathan Curry commented :
    But as my pal Paul Lee says:
    ‘There is a garden in the mind.’
    And in nature.
    You just have to tender the right consequences, by the activity of logos which is navigated by what the Ancient Greeks called Tumos and Sofia. Like a compass and a sextant at sea. They are mental capacities. The yogis had different names for such things.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    Tumos means the energy of life itself. It is the thirst for living fully; with great love and as a fully signed up student of wisdom.
    ‘Logic’ comes from ‘logos.’ But Aristotle and Plato messed it up. They really did. Or what they taught reflected that.
    Intelligence has a way of persisting and clarifying itself though; through those who station themselves to listen to it.
    Nathan Curry commented :
    Sofia is the female aspect of wisdom. Not in the sense of a woman. But more in the sense of an intuitive faculty.
    When you read Moby Dick by Herman Melville you can witness an aspect of that.
    Moby Dick is a great white whale, a sperm whale, and yet it reflects the feminine. It is nature saying to man:
    Stop the pillaging.
    That’s definitely a motif of the Sofia archetype – the wisdom of nature, as it guides man in his activity (Tumos is the decision making center of that activity in the drives of a man or woman or child).
    Nathan Curry commented :
    And when that Tumos faculty is not aligned with the logos of the whole – then clarity is not operating. This is the cause of all depression and upset; any form of misunderstanding around the real nature of entropy (the third law of thermodynamics is wrong because it does not account for the perceiver). And can be easily rectified by the right education.
    Education means to pull out what is inside. For that one must listen to the natural interests and inclinations and gifts of the human being.
    As the Greeks put it:
    Know thyself

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