It is a truth that when someone hates someone they have nailed a projection of a lie about their nature.
When someone is abusive because of unhealed insecurity- it is wise to stand up to them in a non-aggressive way.
When these scars are seen by the conscious mind healing is automatic, if resistance is objectively seen.
The “light” of shame fully exposed as the penumbra it is, of what is not true, helps to clarify what is a lie and end the pain mechanism of the part of the mind that wishes to actualize victimhood.
Then, gratitude (the kind that is like the scent of a rose which is fully an embodiment of love) and wisdom follow; but only in the wake of true humiiity.
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