Thomas Merton had affairs as a monk. He tried to be a Trappist. It trapped him. He could have just been a husband. But then 7 mad misperceptions and 3 ego idols gets you repressed. Understanding the 9 enneatypes frees you. So does the triune society, being a normal human being (not a guru out to halo/hello!/help), understanding Sophia, Tumas and Logos and applying it.
A husband husbands and finds he is naturally a teacher of example, a doctor of lifestyle and authentic nature and never a victim or victimizer and definitely not someone out to save or be saved wearing the badge of “I need to be needed so please follow my needy preachings.” Go beyond all that and you act.
A humanist never looks down on a man or woman or a child. Not one. Not ever.
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